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Many messages flooding my inbox, needless to say, simply stated “hey how are you” because no body is initial, particularly on POF.

Many messages flooding my inbox, needless to say, simply stated “hey how are you” because no body is initial, particularly on POF.

I would like to just take one minute to see that i am aware men and women have many different viewpoints how much to take into account politics when someone that is finding date. I have addressed this prior to in a write-up which was acquired by idea Catalog if you’d like an even more step-by-step explanation of my estimation about this (that’s perhaps not my genuine final title, so don’t bother stalking me personally). Nevertheless the point is, they are MY values and our choices with regards to dating. We don’t expect everybody else to feel since highly as me personally about this problem, plus some supporters that are non-Trump really very well be happy to date a supporter, and that’s their option. That connected post switches into why we won’t do this, but irrespective, the purpose of a site that is dating to locate a person who fulfills your individual choices. And once more, I don’t think my explanation to my profile for why i did son’t would you like to date somebody who voted for Trump was at any method disrespectful, it absolutely was simply describing my views and just why these people were crucial that you me personally.

Anyhow, within the last couple of weeks, I’ve gotten some random one-off Trump supporting communications such as for instance:

I obtained a couple of from those who started off rude then weirdly seemed enthusiastic about me:

We’dn’t have boring wedding. Wtf. We reported that one but he could be nevertheless here.

I obtained some that simply arrived out of the gate by having a lecture

Ahhhh, the move that is classic of a girl whom disagrees to you fat. We reported this person May 2, he’s still there.

I acquired a few that started off non-political but later on made a decision to utilize it being an insult whenever I wasn’t tripping over myself to talk to them

Here is the ONE user through the past few weeks that POF did remove. I assume “salty cunt” is when the line is drawn by them!

It is only a sampling of exactly just what I’ve gotten throughout the last three months. We have sometimes had this issue elsewhere it right away, and it has happened maybe twice on OKC but I contacted them and they eventually removed the profiles in question— I think something like this happened once on Bumble, but their awesome moderators took care of. But on POF, this matter generally seems to run rampant — and once again, this really is ONLY a sample of ONLY politically-related messages I’ve gotten in three days. I’ve had a couple of other rude communications that We haven’t bothered including right here.

My plan would be to keep this up for the couple more days and carry on screenshots that are collecting get this post also funnier, but last night/this early morning something else happened and I’ve decided it’s where i need to draw the line.

I obtained these communications from a man yesterday evening:

Their profile stated he had been a company owner, therefore I did a reverse image search on their images to attempt to find out exactly what their company had been thus I could possibly be certain to never ever patronize it. I discovered their Instagram and Twitter, plus the individual from their pictures is truly a man that everyday lives in Las vegas, nevada (really not even close to where We reside), and has now held it’s place in a relationship with a guy since 2015. At this time we either knew that their pictures was in fact stolen or that some random homosexual man in Nevada had been posing being an East Coast right guy simply to harass ladies. He previously large amount of pictures of this man, too!

This I messaged his boyfriend about it morning. I happened to be a small afraid to content the profile straight just in case it surely had been him, but We felt like somebody ought to know. He confirmed they truly are indeed taken pictures and we also had an excellent laugh about this, but despite me personally reporting this profile for rude communications as well as for fake pictures, and tweeting at POF concerning the problem, their profile is still up. Given, this has just been one day, but this might be this kind of egregious breach of someone’s privacy that there is no reason with this. When this case is solved we shall formally be deleting my POF profile, maybe not “hiding,” actually deleting, for forever.